Posing Tips for Senior Photography: How to Make Seniors Feel Comfortable
Senior photography isn’t just about taking gorgeous pictures—it’s about making your clients feel comfortable, confident, and like absolute superstars. If they’re stiff and awkward, trust me, it shows. And we are not about that life.
Ever had a senior show up looking like they’ve just been forced into a public speaking competition? Yeah, us too. Some have never had a professional photoshoot before, others have been doom-scrolling their friends’ sessions on Instagram, convinced they’ll never look as cool. And then there are the senior guys who are only there because their mom made them (shoutout to the moms for keeping us in business!).
But here’s the thing—your job isn’t just to take their photo; it’s to make them feel amazing. The more comfortable they are, the more natural their expressions, the better their poses, and the more they’ll love their final images. So how do you make that happen? Let’s get into it.
I send out a video walkthrough before the session so seniors know exactly what to expect. Sarah does a 15-minute pre-session call with them and their parent (because let’s be real, parents make the booking decisions). Whether you do a call, a guide, or a video, setting expectations beforehand makes everything easier.
We send out pre-session questionnaires with fun, low-pressure questions like:
This not only helps us get to know them but also gives us a game plan to tailor their session to their personality. Bonus: it makes great content for blogs and social media!
Silence is awkward, and nobody wants to feel like they’re at a dentist’s office. That’s why we always ask about their favorite music and play it during the shoot. A solid playlist helps shake off nerves and gets them into the right energy. Because let’s be real—no one can stay stiff while lip-syncing their favorite song.
Instead of making them stand still and overthink every little detail, we start sessions with movement. Walking, twirling, flipping their hair—anything to help them ease into the session. Movement brings out personality, and personality brings out the best photos. It’s science (or at least, it should be).
If you’re not hyping up your seniors, you’re doing it wrong. Tell them:
And show them! Flip your camera around and let them see how incredible they look. That instant confidence boost? Game-changing.
This isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation. If they’re an athlete, get them moving. If they love the outdoors, take them somewhere with a killer view. If they’re shy, adjust your energy to match theirs. The more personalized the experience, the more comfortable they’ll feel, and the more authentic the final images will be.
The last five minutes of a session are just as important as the first. Wrap things up with excitement—show them a sneak peek, tell them how much fun it was, and remind them they crushed it. And don’t forget to send a sneak peek within 24 hours! Keeping the hype going ensures they’re even more excited to share their photos (which, hello, is free marketing for you!).
Try adding one new icebreaker or posing prompt at your next session and watch how it transforms your senior’s confidence. Need help prepping your clients? Grab my free senior questionnaire—it’s a game-changer. Link in the show notes!
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