Lane and Luke are 3 years apart, which is the biggest age gap between kids. The rest are 2 years apart, but we thought Lane would be our last child (he is #4) so we waited a little longer to have him. The age gap seems to be perfect for them. They love to play the Wii and DS together and there just seems to be A LOT less fighting. I love that they have a built in friend with each other and have found it early on.You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gifts to you as you are to them. ~Desmond Tutu